Bad news Quote by Tim Gunn
““When someone dies, it’s good to mail a note. Don’t send an e-mail. You have to send a card. Everyone should have cards and stamps kicking around. I have some very simple stationery, just nice card stock with my name at the top. When the news is happy, e-mail is fine. You can e-mail congratulations about babies, weddings, anything. But when it’s not? If it’s a death or other bad news, you have to be more formal.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Tim Gunn on Etiquette, 2014
Formal handwritten notes convey respect and personal touch in mourning, unlike casual emails.
In simple terms: Handwritten cards show care in sad times.
Key Takeaway
Choose a card for condolences.
Themes
respect
communication
mourning
Mood
thoughtful
somber
Type
advice
etiquette
When to use this quote
- sending condolences
- celebrating milestones
- professional correspondence
Key Concepts
personalization
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- How does a handwritten note affect the receiver’s comfort?
- When is email appropriate for sensitive news?
A Different Perspective
Digital messages may seem impersonal for grief.
