Complicated love Quote by Thornton Wilder
““He had lost that privilege of simple nature, the dissociation of love and pleasure. Pleasure was no longer as simple as eating; it was being complicated by love. Now was beginning that crazy loss of one's self, that neglect of everything but one's dramatic thoughts about the beloved, that feverish inner life all turning upon the [loved one].””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Bridge of San Luis Rey, 1927
Love complicates pleasure, merging desire with self‑loss, creating an intense, self‑absorbing inner world.
In simple terms: Love makes pleasure complex and self‑absorbing.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how love can dominate thoughts.
Themes
love
pleasure
self‑loss
intensity
Mood
reflective
intense
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- creative pursuits
- personal introspection
Key Concepts
psychology
philosophy
emotions
Questions to Reflect On
- How does love change your perception of pleasure?
- When does love become self‑destructive?
A Different Perspective
Love can lead to neglect of other responsibilities.
