First person Quote by Thomas Merton
““There is an irreducible opposition between the deep transcendent self that awakens only in contemplation, and the superficial, external self which we commonly identify with the first person singular. We must remember that this superficial “I” is not our real self. It is our “individuality” and our “empirical self” but it is not truly the hidden and mysterious person in whom we subsist before the eyes of God. The “I” that works in the world, thinks about itself, observes its own reactions and talks about itself is not the true “I” that has been united to God in Christ.””
About This Quote
Source Spiritual Writing: The Sign of the Cross, 1970
Merton contrasts the true, transcendent self with the everyday, ego‑driven identity, urging seekers to look beyond the superficial “I.”
In simple terms: The deeper self is hidden beyond our ordinary self‑image.
Key Takeaway
Seek the deeper self beyond ego.
Themes
spirituality
identity
philosophy
Mood
contemplative
inquisitive
Type
spiritual
philosophical
When to use this quote
- meditation
- prayer
- psychotherapy
- personal growth
Key Concepts
transcendence
ego
self‑realization
Questions to Reflect On
- What practices help you experience the deeper self?
- How do you balance ego and transcendence?
A Different Perspective
The “I” can be useful for navigating daily life, even if not the ultimate self.
