Humble man Quote by Thomas Merton
““It is not speaking that breaks our silence, but the anxiety to be heard. The words of the proud man impose silence on all others, so that he alone may be heard. The humble man speaks only in order to be spoken to.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Seven Storey Mountain, Thomas Merton, 1948
Anxiety to be heard, not speaking, creates silence; pride enforces silence, humility seeks dialogue.
In simple terms: Fear of being heard creates silence; pride silences, humility invites conversation.
Listen more, speak less, value humility.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- public speaking
- personal relationships
- leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your fear of being heard affect your interactions?
- When can pride be constructive?
Pride can also inspire positive change when balanced with humility.