Preoccupied Quote by Thomas Mann
““The fact is that everyone is much too busily preoccupied with himself to be able to form a serious opinion about another person. The indolent world is all too ready to treat any man with whatever degree of respect corresponds to his own self-confidence.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Buddenbrooks by Thomas Mann, 1901
People are so self‑absorbed they cannot fairly judge others; respect often mirrors one's own confidence.
In simple terms: Self‑interest blocks objective judgment and respect follows self‑confidence.
Key Takeaway
Recognize your bias and evaluate others on their own merits.
Themes
self‑awareness
judgment
respect
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- workplace meetings
- friendship circles
- online discussions
- leadership decisions
Key Concepts
ego
social perception
confidence
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your own confidence shape how you treat others?
- Can you separate self‑esteem from respect for others?
A Different Perspective
Bias can be unconscious and hard to detect without deliberate reflection.
