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Adversity Quote by Thomas Keating

“Difficulties arise whenever a committed relationship is succeeding. Love makes you vulnerable. . . . Your defenses relax and the dark side of your personality arises. . .” quote by Thomas Keating
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“Difficulties arise whenever a committed relationship is succeeding. Love makes you vulnerable. . . . Your defenses relax and the dark side of your personality arises. . .”

Thomas Keating

About This Quote

Source Book: The Gift of Silence, 1995

Intimacy in relationships exposes hidden flaws, requiring vigilance and self-awareness.

In simple terms: Close love reveals personal shadows.

Key Takeaway

Stay aware of vulnerabilities in love.

Themes

vulnerability intimacy self-awareness

Mood

cautious hopeful

Type

psychological spiritual

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • personal therapy
  • relationship building

Key Concepts

psychology spiritual growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can partners protect each other while staying open?
  • What practices foster healthy vulnerability?
A Different Perspective

Vulnerability can lead to pain if not managed.

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