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Argument Quote by Thomas Jefferson

“...never [enter] into dispute or argument with another. I never saw an instance of one of two disputants convincing the other by argument. I have seen many, on their getting warm, becoming rude, & shooting one another. ... When I hear another express an opinion which is not mine, I say to myself…” quote by Thomas Jefferson
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““...never [enter] into dispute or argument with another. I never saw an instance of one of two disputants convincing the other by argument. I have seen many, on their getting warm, becoming rude, & shooting one another. ... When I hear another express an opinion which is not mine, I say to myself, he has a right to his opinion, as I to mine; why should I question it? His error does me no injury, and shall I become a Don Quixote, to bring all men by force of argument to one opinion? ... There are two classes of disputants most frequently to be met with among us. The first is of young students, just entered the threshold of science, with a first view of its outlines, not yet filled up with the details & modifications which a further progress would bring to their knoledge. The other consists of the ill-tempered & rude men in society, who have taken up a passion for politics. ... Consider yourself, when with them, as among the patients of Bedlam, needing medical more than moral counsel. Be a listener only, keep within yourself, and endeavor to establish with yourself the habit of silence, especially on politics. In the fevered state of our country, no good can ever result from any attempt to set one of these fiery zealots to rights, either in fact or principle. They are determined as to the facts they will believe, and the opinions on which they will act. Get by them, therefore, as you would by an angry bull; it is not for a man of sense to dispute the road with such an animal.””

Thomas Jefferson

About This Quote

Source Letter: Letter to John Adams, 1799

Advocates avoiding arguments because they rarely change minds and often lead to hostility; better to listen and stay silent, especially on politics.

In simple terms: Arguments rarely persuade; listening is wiser.

Key Takeaway

Practice silence in contentious discussions.

Themes

tolerance communication politics self‑control

Mood

reflective calm

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • political debates
  • family disagreements
  • online forums
  • workplace meetings

Key Concepts

Stoicism conflict avoidance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you express disagreement without arguing?
  • When is speaking up more effective than staying silent?
A Different Perspective

Silence may be seen as acquiescence or lack of conviction.

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