Affection Quote by Thomas Hardy
““Theirs was that substantial affection which arises (if any arises at all) when the two who are thrown together begin first by knowing the rougher sides of each other’s character, and not the best till further on, the romance growing up in the interstices of a mass of hard prosaic reality.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tess of the d'Urbervilles by Thomas Hardy, 1891
Romance deepens after partners first see each other's flaws, not just idealized traits.
In simple terms: Love grows from realistic understanding.
Key Takeaway
Embrace imperfections early.
Themes
love
relationships
growth
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
literary
romantic
When to use this quote
- dating
- long‑term partnership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
character flaws
romantic development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance honesty with kindness?
- What flaws have you accepted in a partner?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing partners can delay genuine connection.
