Absence Quote by Thomas Aquinas
“Pain itself can be pleasurable accidentally in so far as it is accompanied by wonder, as in stage-plays; or in so far as it recalls a beloved object to one's memory, and makes one feel one's love for the thing, whose absence gives us pain. Consequently, since love is pleasant, both pain and whatever else results from love, in so far as they remind us of our love, are pleasant.”
About This Quote
Source Treatise: Summa Theologica, Part I, Question 21, 1274
Pain can feel pleasant when it is linked to love or wonder, because it reminds us of something cherished that is absent.
In simple terms: Pain linked to love can feel good.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and balance emotional pain with love.
Themes
love
pain
wonder
memory
pleasure
Mood
thoughtful
philosophical
Type
inspirational
reflective
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- artistic expression
- mindfulness practice
Key Concepts
theology
philosophy
affect theory
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you find joy without pain?
- How does memory shape your feelings?
A Different Perspective
Pleasure from pain may be fleeting and dependent on memory.
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