Affection Quote by Thomas à Kempis
““Not every affection which seems good is to be immediately followed. Neither is every opposite affection to be immediately avoided. Sometimes it is expedient to use restraint even in good desires and wishes, lest through importunity you fall into distraction of mind, lest through want of discipline you become a stumbling block to others.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Imitation of Christ, Thomas à Kempis, 1418
Good intentions may need restraint to avoid distraction or harming others; not all desires should be acted on instantly.
In simple terms: Sometimes restraint is wise even for good wishes.
Key Takeaway
Practice measured response to impulses.
Themes
self‑control
discipline
mindfulness
Mood
thoughtful
balanced
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal decisions
- leadership
- conflict resolution
- teaching
- counseling
Key Concepts
ethical restraint
psychology
spirituality
Questions to Reflect On
- When should you hold back a good desire?
- How can restraint protect others?
A Different Perspective
Restraint can lead to missed opportunities if over‑applied.
