Contradicts Quote by Thomas a Kempis
“Grant me prudently to avoid him that flatters me, and to endure patiently him that contradicts me.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Imitation of Christ, Thomas à Kempis, 1418
Seek wise counsel and patience, avoiding flattering influences and tolerating dissenting voices.
In simple terms: Avoid flattery, endure disagreement.
Key Takeaway
Choose integrity over approval.
Themes
wisdom
patience
relationships
Mood
reflective
serious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal decisions
- leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
ethical conduct
self‑discipline
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate constructive criticism from harmful flattery?
- What habits help you stay patient with opposing views?
A Different Perspective
Flattery can be subtle, making it hard to recognize.
