Argument Quote by Theodore Dreiser
“People in general attach too much importance to words. They are under the illusion that talking effects great results. As a matter of fact, words are, as a rule, the shallowest portion of all the argument. They but dimly represent the great surging feelings and desires which lie behind. When the distraction of the tongue is removed, the heart listens.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: "The Art of Writing", 1910
Words are shallow compared to the deep emotions they mask; true listening occurs when speech stops.
In simple terms: Words hide deeper feelings; listening reveals them.
Listen beyond words.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counselling
- relationships
- team meetings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you practice active listening?
- When is speaking necessary?
Silence may be misinterpreted as indifference.