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Depression Quote by Sufjan Stevens

“Perhaps we don't like what we see: our hips, our loss of hair, our shoe size, our dimples, our knuckles too big, our eating habits, our disposition. We have disclosed these things in secret, likes and dislikes, behind doors with locks, our lonely rooms, our messy desks, our empty hearts, our…” quote by Sufjan Stevens
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““Perhaps we don't like what we see: our hips, our loss of hair, our shoe size, our dimples, our knuckles too big, our eating habits, our disposition. We have disclosed these things in secret, likes and dislikes, behind doors with locks, our lonely rooms, our messy desks, our empty hearts, our sudden bursts of energy, our sudden bouts of depression. Don’t worry. Put away your mirrors and your beauty magazines and your books on tape. There is someone right here who knows you more than you do, who is making room on the couch, who is fixing a meal, who is putting on your favorite record, who is listening intently to what you have to say, who is standing there with you, face to face, hand to hand, eye to eye, mouth to mouth. There is no space left uncovered. This is where you belong.””

Sufjan Stevens

About This Quote

Source Song: “The Only Thing” from the album “Carrie & Lowell”, 2015

The quote urges acceptance of oneself beyond superficial flaws, emphasizing deep connection with a caring presence that sees and supports us fully.

In simple terms: Accept yourself beyond surface flaws; you are loved and understood.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine connection, not self‑judgment.

Themes

self‑acceptance connection vulnerability

Mood

comforting intimate hopeful

Type

advice inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • friendship
  • romantic partnership
  • personal reflection
  • creative collaboration

Key Concepts

human intimacy self‑compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance self‑acceptance with self‑improvement?
  • Who in your life offers this unconditional presence?
A Different Perspective

The message may overlook the need for personal growth and confronting harmful habits.

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