Let Words Quote by Sufi
““Before we speak, let's our words pass through three gates. At the first gate, let's ask ourselves, 'Is it true?' At the second let's ask 'Is it necessary?' At the third gate let's ask 'Is it kind?””
About This Quote
Source Proverb: Sufi tradition, oral teaching
Before speaking, test words for truth, necessity, and kindness.
In simple terms: Check truth, need, and kindness before speaking.
Pause and evaluate speech.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- conflict resolution
- public speaking
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Which gate do you most often neglect?
- How can you balance truth with kindness?
Over‑analysis can stall honest expression.