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Crush Quote by Stephen Chbosky

“I don't want to be somebody's crush. If someone likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am. And I don't want them to carry it around inside. I want them to show me, so I can feel it, too. I want them to be able to do whatever they want around me. And if they do something I…” quote by Stephen Chbosky
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““I don't want to be somebody's crush. If someone likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am. And I don't want them to carry it around inside. I want them to show me, so I can feel it, too. I want them to be able to do whatever they want around me. And if they do something I don't like, I'll tell them.””

Stephen Chbosky

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Perks of Being a Wallflower, 1999

He wants genuine love, not a projected ideal, and values honest communication and boundaries.

In simple terms: Seek authentic love and open communication.

Key Takeaway

Demand honesty.

Themes

love authenticity communication

Mood

hopeful serious

Type

relational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendships
  • personal boundaries
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

relationships self‑acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you show your true self?
  • What boundaries are essential for you?
A Different Perspective

People may fear vulnerability.

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