Accepting Quote by Stephanie Dowrick
“It should not be difficult to accept the idea that someone else is, in 'your experience of them', in part your self-creation. But it is difficult and sometimes impossible. Impossible because accepting the idea that you are in part creating your 'other' forces you to take on board a high degree of self responsibility. Few of us easily do that. p.234”
About This Quote
Source Book: New Age Spirituality, p.234
Accepting that we partly shape how we perceive others means taking responsibility for our own role in relationships, which many find hard.
In simple terms: We help create our view of others, so we must own that influence.
Key Takeaway
Own your perception of others.
Themes
responsibility
self-awareness
relationships
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- counseling
- personal development
- conflict resolution
- team building
Key Concepts
psychology
interpersonal perception
identity formation
Questions to Reflect On
- How does acknowledging your role change your interactions?
- What barriers prevent you from taking this responsibility?
A Different Perspective
It can be uncomfortable to admit personal influence over others' images.
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