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“The commandment, 'Love thy neighbour as thyself', is the strongest defence against human aggressiveness and an excellent example of the unpsychological [expectations] of the cultural super-ego. The commandment is impossible to fulfil; such an enormous inflation of love can only lower its value…” quote by Sigmund Freud
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““The commandment, 'Love thy neighbour as thyself', is the strongest defence against human aggressiveness and an excellent example of the unpsychological [expectations] of the cultural super-ego. The commandment is impossible to fulfil; such an enormous inflation of love can only lower its value, not get rid of the difficulty. Civilization pays no attention to all this; it merely admonishes us that the harder it is to obey the precept the more meritorious it is to do so. But anyone who follows such a precept in present-day civilization only puts himself at a disadvantage vis-a-vis the person who disregards it. What a potent obstacle to civilization aggressiveness must be, if the defence against it can cause as much unhappiness as aggressiveness itself! 'Natural' ethics, as it is called, has nothing to offer here except the narcissistic satisfaction of being able to think oneself better than others. At this point the ethics based on religion introduces its promises of a better after-life. But so long as virtue is not rewarded here on earth, ethics will, I fancy, preach in vain. I too think it quite certain that a real change in the relations of human beings to possessions would be of more help in this direction than any ethical commands; but the recognition of this fact among socialists has been obscured and made useless for practical purposes by a fresh idealistic misconception of human nature.””

Sigmund Freud

About This Quote

Source Essay: “Civilization and Its Discontents”, 1930

Argues that the command to love others as oneself is an impossible ideal that inflates love’s value, creating moral tension and personal disadvantage in society.

In simple terms: Loving others equally is unrealistic and creates conflict.

Key Takeaway

Balance self‑interest with realistic compassion.

Themes

ethics human nature societal conflict

Mood

critical analytical

Type

philosophical critical

When to use this quote

  • ethical debates
  • social policy design
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology morality

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is unconditional love feasible in modern life?
  • What practical ethics can replace impossible commandments?
A Different Perspective

Idealistic love can cause more unhappiness than aggression.

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