Change Quote by Shawn Coyne
““When human beings are faced with chaotic circumstances, our impulse is to stay safe by doing what we’ve always done before. To change our course of action seems far riskier than to keep on keeping on. To change anything about our lives, even our choice of toothpaste, causes great anxiety. How we are convinced finally to change is by hearing stories of other people who risked and triumphed. Not some easy triumph, either. But a hard fought one that takes every ounce of the protagonist’s inner fortitude. Because that’s what it takes in real life to leave a dysfunctional relationship, move to a new city, or quit your job. It takes guts, moxie, inner fire, the stuff of heroes. Change, no matter how small, requires loss. And the prospect of loss is far more powerful than potential gain. It’s difficult to imagine what a change will do to us. This is why we need stories so desperately.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Power of Narrative in Change, 2020
Stories of real struggle and triumph motivate people to overcome fear of loss and embrace change, despite anxiety.
In simple terms: Stories help us face fear and change.
Key Takeaway
Use stories to inspire personal change.
Themes
change
fear
storytelling
Mood
inspirational
reflective
Type
motivational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career moves
- relationship ends
- health habits
- relocation
Key Concepts
psychology
behavioral economics
motivation
Questions to Reflect On
- What story has moved you to act?
- How can we balance risk and reward?
A Different Perspective
Stories may oversimplify complex decisions.
