Gratitude Quote by Sharon Olds
““Poem of Thanks Years later, long single, I want to turn to his departed back, and say, What gifts we had of each other! What pleasure — confiding, open-eyed, fainting with what we were allowed to stay up late doing. And you couldn’t say, could you, that the touch you had from me was other than the touch of one who could love for life — whether we were suited or not — for life, like a sentence. And now that I consider, the touch that I had from you became not the touch of the long view, but like the tolerant willingness of one who is passing through. Colleague of sand by moonlight — and by beach noonlight, once, and of straw, salt bale in a barn, and mulch inside a garden, between the rows — once- partner of up against the wall in that tiny bathroom with the lock that fluttered like a chrome butterfly beside us, hip-height, the familiar of our innocence, which was the ignorance of what would be asked, what was required, thank you for every hour. And I accept your thanks, as if it were a gift of yours, to give them — let’s part equals, as we were in every bed, pure equals of the earth.””
About This Quote
Source Poem: “Poem of Thanks” by Sharon Olds, 2005
The speaker reflects on a deep, complex relationship, acknowledging shared moments, love, and gratitude while recognizing its inevitable end.
In simple terms: Reflecting on a past love, feeling gratitude and acceptance.
Embrace gratitude and let go.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- late‑life reflection
- writing a memoir
- closing a partnership
- celebrating shared history
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does gratitude look like after a relationship ends?
- How can we honor shared intimacy while moving forward?
The poem’s abstract imagery may obscure its emotional clarity for some readers.