Bounds Quote by Shana Alexander
“Ours was the Togetherness Generation. We equated togetherness with salvation, and expected so much from it that it was bound to let us down. Companionship, security, lifelong physical and spiritual and emotional warmth - all were to be had for the twist of a ring and the breathing of a vow. And to be had no other way.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Female Eunuch by Shana Alexander, 1970
The expectation that togetherness alone provides salvation leads to disappointment when reality falls short.
In simple terms: Togetherness isn’t enough for lasting fulfillment.
Key Takeaway
Don’t rely solely on relationships for meaning.
Themes
relationships
expectations
disillusionment
spirituality
society
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- faith communities
- personal growth
- relationship therapy
Key Concepts
psychology
sociology
spiritual fulfillment
Questions to Reflect On
- What other sources of meaning can complement relationships?
- How can you set realistic expectations for partnership?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing any single source of security can cause emotional fragility.
