Spider Quote by Sarah Waters
““See here, look at my hands. Say there’s a cobweb spun between them. It’s my ambition. And at its centre there’s a spider, a color of a jewel. The spider is you. This is how I shall bear you--so gently, so carefully and without jar, you shall not know you are being taken.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tipping the Velvet, 1998
The speaker describes ambition as a delicate web with the listener as its central, precious spider, suggesting a gentle, unnoticed influence.
In simple terms: Ambition is a fragile web, the listener is the central spider, taken gently.
Influence others subtly and with care.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- leadership
- creative collaboration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Is gentle influence ethical?
- How do we recognize when we are being subtly guided?
Risk of manipulation under the guise of gentleness.