Question mark Quote by Sarah Kay
““If you grow up the type of woman men want to hold, You can let them hold you. All day they practice keeping their bodies upright. Even after all this evolving it still feels unnatural, Still strains the muscles, holds firm the arms and spine. Only some men will want to learn what it feels like to curl themselves into a question mark around you, Admit they don’t have the answers they thought they would by now.””
About This Quote
The speaker reflects on societal expectations of women’s posture and support, questioning whether men truly understand or can adapt to women’s needs.
In simple terms: Women often feel pressured to maintain a certain stance for men.
Challenge gender norms and seek mutual support.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace
- relationships
- public speaking
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you define “holding” someone?
- What changes would make support feel natural?
Not all men are unwilling; the issue may be broader than individual men.