Respect Quote by Sarah Dessen
““Why are you being so nice to me?' I asked her. 'You know,' she said, 'when you say stuff like that I just want to slap you.' 'What?' 'You heard me.' She picked up her beer and took a swallow, still watching me. Then she said, 'Colie, you should never be surprised when people treat you with respect. You should expect it.' I shook my head. 'You don’t know-' I began. But, as usual, she didn’t let me finish. 'Yes,' she said simply. 'I do know. I’ve watched you, Colie. You walk around like a dog waiting to be kicked, and when someone does, you pout and cry like you didn’t deserve it.' 'No one deserves to be kicked,' I said. 'I disagree,' she said flatly. 'You do if you don’t think you’re worth any better.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Truth About Forever, Sarah Dessen, 2009
Self‑worth is shaped by how we accept respect and reject self‑defeating expectations.
In simple terms: Self‑worth depends on accepting respect and rejecting low expectations.
Key Takeaway
Demand respect and recognize your value.
Themes
self‑esteem
boundaries
assertiveness
Mood
empowering
introspective
Type
motivational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- workplace
- friendships
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
personal value
social dynamics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations do you hold about how you should be treated?
- How can you assert your worth without feeling guilty?
A Different Perspective
Respect can be misinterpreted or withheld by others.
