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Control Quote by Sarah Dessen

“It was so easy to disown what you couldn't recognize, to keep yourself apart from things that were foreign and unsettling. The only person you can be sure to control, always, is yourself. Which is a lot to be sure of, but at the same time, not enough.” quote by Sarah Dessen
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“It was so easy to disown what you couldn't recognize, to keep yourself apart from things that were foreign and unsettling. The only person you can be sure to control, always, is yourself. Which is a lot to be sure of, but at the same time, not enough.”

Sarah Dessen

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Truth About Forever”, 2004

Denial of unfamiliarity is easy, but self‑control is the only true mastery we possess, though it’s limited.

In simple terms: Only self can be truly controlled.

Key Takeaway

Focus on self‑awareness and personal responsibility.

Themes

self‑control identity recognition growth

Mood

introspective motivational

Type

personal literary

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • journaling
  • personal coaching

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of self are truly controllable?
  • How do you confront unsettling unfamiliarities?
A Different Perspective

May overlook external influences.

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