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Affection Quote by Samuel Richardson

“Marry first, and love will come after is a shocking assertion; since a thousand things may happen to make the state but barely tolerable, when it is entered into with mutual affection.” quote by Samuel Richardson
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“Marry first, and love will come after is a shocking assertion; since a thousand things may happen to make the state but barely tolerable, when it is entered into with mutual affection.”

Samuel Richardson

About This Quote

Source Novel: Clarissa by Samuel Richardson, 1748

Love may follow marriage, but mutual affection is essential for a tolerable union.

In simple terms: Marriage without love can be difficult.

Key Takeaway

Seek affection before commitment.

Themes

marriage love affection

Mood

thoughtful serious

Type

literary advice

When to use this quote

  • arranged marriage
  • long‑term partnership
  • family expectations

Key Concepts

social contract emotional intimacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • Is affection more important than duty?
  • How do you nurture love after marriage?
A Different Perspective

Love alone may not sustain a marriage without respect.

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