Accommodations Quote by Samuel Johnson
“The desire of advising has a very extensive prevalence; and, since advice cannot be given but to those that will hear it, a patient listener is necessary to the accommodation of all those who desire to be confirmed in the opinion of their own wisdom: a patient listener, however, is not always to be had; the present age, whatever age is present, is so vitiated and disordered, that young people are readier to talk than to attend, and good counsel is only thrown away upon those who are full of their own perfections.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Idler, 1759
Highlights the rarity of patient listeners and the prevalence of self‑absorbed advice‑seekers.
In simple terms: Patient listening is rare.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate patience when offering or receiving advice.
Themes
communication
humility
wisdom
Mood
thoughtful
critical
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- mentoring
- family discussions
- team meetings
- public debates
Key Concepts
active listening
ego
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you become a better listener?
- What hinders people from hearing counsel?
A Different Perspective
People often ignore advice they need.
