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Absence Quote by Samuel Johnson

“Friendship, like love, is destroyed by long absence, though it may be increased by short intermissions. What we have missed long enough to want it, we value more when it is regained; but that which has been lost till it is forgotten will be found at last with little gladness, and with still less…” quote by Samuel Johnson
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“Friendship, like love, is destroyed by long absence, though it may be increased by short intermissions. What we have missed long enough to want it, we value more when it is regained; but that which has been lost till it is forgotten will be found at last with little gladness, and with still less if a substitute has supplied the place.”

Samuel Johnson

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Idler, 1758

Long separation weakens bonds; brief reunions revive them, but forgotten ties lose value.

In simple terms: Absence hurts relationships, short meetings help.

Key Takeaway

Cherish time with loved ones.

Themes

friendship absence value

Mood

reflective melancholy

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • long‑distance friendships
  • family reunions

Key Concepts

psychology relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What makes a reunion meaningful?
  • How do you maintain connections over time?
A Different Perspective

Some relationships recover despite long gaps.

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