Old man Quote by Ron Chernow
““As in past years, the self-absorbed Jesse Root Grant and equally self-absorbed Colonel Dent continued to find each other insufferable and Grant took refuge in his old strategy of passive detachment. With Colonel Dent monopolizing the White House, Jesse stayed at an inexpensive hotel when he visited Washington. The two men took turns insulting each other, pretending the other was a doddering old fool. “You should take better care of that old gentleman, Julia,” Dent would say of Jesse Grant. “He is feeble and deaf as a post, and yet you permit him to wander all over Washington alone. It is not safe; he should never be allowed out without an attendant.”18 To insult Jesse, Colonel Dent would pop out of his armchair whenever Jesse entered the room. “Accept my chair, Mr. Grant,” he would say with elaborate courtesy, as if humoring a senile old man. Stiffly indignant, Jesse would reply in a stage whisper to a grandson, “I hope I shall not live to become as””
About This Quote
Source Book: Ulysses S. Grant: Soldier & President by Ron Chernow, 2017
The passage illustrates how personal ego and rivalry can dominate political interactions, reducing serious governance to petty insults and power plays.
In simple terms: Ego-driven rivalry turns politics into petty insults.
Recognize and curb personal ego in leadership.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- government meetings
- campaign strategy
- team leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does personal rivalry affect decision making?
- What strategies can mitigate ego in leadership?
Ego can blind leaders to substantive issues.