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Breaths Quote by Robert Musil

“When one's married for so long, always walking on four feet and always breathing double breaths and thinking every thought twice through and the time between the main things is packed double full with minor details - then, sometimes, naturally, one yearns like an arrow for one whole space thin as…” quote by Robert Musil
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““When one's married for so long, always walking on four feet and always breathing double breaths and thinking every thought twice through and the time between the main things is packed double full with minor details - then, sometimes, naturally, one yearns like an arrow for one whole space thin as air. And you start up in the night, terrified by your own breathing, which had just been going along as evenly without you. But you don't rise up free - or even really as far as your knees - not once. You strike a match. And there's one of you right there, wrapped in flesh. Only then is it love.””

Robert Musil

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Man Without Qualities by Robert Musil, 1930

Long-term marriage can feel cramped, prompting a yearning for freedom that only love can fulfill.

In simple terms: Marriage can feel confining, yet love offers release.

Key Takeaway

Recognize love’s role in personal liberation.

Themes

marriage freedom love

Mood

introspective hopeful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marital counseling
  • personal therapy
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

existential yearning psychological tension relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does love transform perceived confinement?
  • Can freedom be found without love?
A Different Perspective

The metaphor may idealize love, overlooking practical constraints.

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