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Being human Quote by Robert J. Waldinger

“Being human means there's a wall-builder in each of us. Our minds naturally divide the world into me and not-me, us and them. For thousands of years, our sages have taught that we're all one, yet we still divide wherever we look.” quote by Robert J. Waldinger
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“Being human means there's a wall-builder in each of us. Our minds naturally divide the world into me and not-me, us and them. For thousands of years, our sages have taught that we're all one, yet we still divide wherever we look.”

Robert J. Waldinger

About This Quote

Source Book: The Good Life: Lessons from the World's Longest Study of Happiness, 2020

People instinctively create divisions, yet wisdom traditions teach unity; recognizing this tension can foster empathy and social harmony.

In simple terms: We tend to separate ourselves from others, but we are all connected.

Key Takeaway

Practice seeing others as part of yourself.

Themes

human nature division unity empathy

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • teamwork
  • conflict resolution
  • community building

Key Concepts

psychology philosophy social cognition

Questions to Reflect On

  • What personal biases create your divisions?
  • How can you act to bridge them?
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