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Acceptance Quote by Robert Farrar Capon

“Lord, please restore to us the comfort of merit and demerit. Show us that there is at least something we can do. Tell us that at the end of the day there will at least be one redeeming card of our very own. Lord, if it is not too much to ask, send us to bed with a few shreds of self-respect upon…” quote by Robert Farrar Capon
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“Lord, please restore to us the comfort of merit and demerit. Show us that there is at least something we can do. Tell us that at the end of the day there will at least be one redeeming card of our very own. Lord, if it is not too much to ask, send us to bed with a few shreds of self-respect upon which we can congratulate ourselves. But whatever you do, do not preach grace. Give us something to do, anything; but spare us the indignity of this indiscriminate acceptance.”

Robert Farrar Capon

About This Quote

Source Sermon: The Gift of Work, 1992

A prayer for dignity through effort, asking for purpose rather than passive grace, and rejecting empty acceptance.

In simple terms: Seek active purpose and self‑respect, not just passive forgiveness.

Key Takeaway

Find work that restores self‑esteem and avoids hollow acceptance.

Themes

dignity work self‑respect faith rejection of passive grace

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

spiritual practical

When to use this quote

  • job search
  • volunteering
  • personal development
  • spiritual practice

Key Concepts

theology existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • What actions give you a sense of worth?
  • How can you balance effort with grace?
A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on effort may cause burnout without balance.

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