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“They tell you to do your own thing but they don't mean it. They don't want you to do your thing, not unless it happens to be their thing, too.” quote by Robert Cormier
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““They tell you to do your own thing but they don't mean it. They don't want you to do your thing, not unless it happens to be their thing, too.””

Robert Cormier

About This Quote

Source Book: The Chocolate War by Robert Cormier, 1974

People often claim to support individuality, yet they only accept it when it aligns with their own preferences.

In simple terms: Freedom is only truly valued when it matches others' desires.

Key Takeaway

Question who truly supports your independence.

Themes

conformity individuality social pressure

Mood

skeptical reflective

Type

advice critical

When to use this quote

  • workplace decisions
  • creative projects
  • friendship choices
  • political activism

Key Concepts

authenticity self‑determination group dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you feel pressure to conform to others' standards?
  • How can you protect your authentic choices?
A Different Perspective

People may genuinely believe they support autonomy while still imposing hidden expectations.

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