Don Want Quote by Robert Cormier
““They tell you to do your own thing but they don't mean it. They don't want you to do your thing, not unless it happens to be their thing, too.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Chocolate War by Robert Cormier, 1974
People often claim to support individuality, yet they only accept it when it aligns with their own preferences.
In simple terms: Freedom is only truly valued when it matches others' desires.
Question who truly supports your independence.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- workplace decisions
- creative projects
- friendship choices
- political activism
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you feel pressure to conform to others' standards?
- How can you protect your authentic choices?
People may genuinely believe they support autonomy while still imposing hidden expectations.