Existentialism Quote by Robert C. Solomon
![“[W]hat we also see in sex is a kind of submissiveness. But not a kind of submissiveness which is simply 'do what you like, I'm just here for you', but it...is, or can be, very manipulative. It is a way of getting the other person to exercise all his or her efforts towards pleasing you, and in that…” quote by Robert C. Solomon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/571/robert-c-solomon-13743_existentialism_w-hat-we-also-see-in-sex-is-a-kind-of-su_155420.jpg)
““[W]hat we also see in sex is a kind of submissiveness. But not a kind of submissiveness which is simply 'do what you like, I'm just here for you', but it...is, or can be, very manipulative. It is a way of getting the other person to exercise all his or her efforts towards pleasing you, and in that way controlling what they're thinking, and in particular what they're thinking of you.””
About This Quote
Sex can involve manipulative submissiveness, where one party seeks to control the other's thoughts and actions, raising ethical concerns.
In simple terms: Sex may involve manipulative control, not just mutual consent.
Key Takeaway
Beware of manipulative dynamics in intimacy.
Themes
intimacy
power
manipulation
Mood
cautious
critical
Type
ethical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- ethical debate
- psychological analysis
Key Concepts
ethical consent
psychology
relationship dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can partners ensure mutual respect?
- What signs indicate unhealthy power play?
A Different Perspective
Manipulation erodes trust.
![“I think that submissiveness can [be] and is a formidable weapon, which women will use as long as it isn't taken from them.” quote by Anne Desclos](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/dcf/anne-desclos-27632_formidable_i-think-that-submissiveness-can-be-and-i_1071581.jpg)
![“Spirituality can be severed from both vicious sectarianism and thoughtless banalities. Spirituality, I have come to see, is nothing less than the thoughtful love of life. [Spirituality for the Skeptic]” quote by Robert C. Solomon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/1a2/robert-c-solomon-13743_banality_spirituality-can-be-severed-from-both-vi_28872.jpg)
