American character Quote by Robert Bly
“During the fifties, for example, the American character appeared with someconsistency that became a model of manhood adopted by many men: the Fifties male. He got to work early, labored responsibly, supported his wife and children and admired discipline. Reagan is a sort of mummified version of this dogged type. This sort of mandidn't see women's souls well,but he appreciated their bodies; and his view of culture and America's part in it was boyish and optimistic. Many of his qualities were strong and positive, but underneath the charm and bluff there was, and there remains, much isolation, deprivation, and passivity. Unless he has an enemy, he isn't sure that he is alive. The Fifties man was supposed to like football, be aggressive, stick up for the United States, never cry, and always provide… During the sixties, another sort of man appeared. The waste and violence of the Vietnam war made men question whether they knew what an adult male really was. If manhood meant Vietnam, did they want any part of it? Meanwhile, the feminist movement encouraged men toactually look at women, forcing them to become conscious of concerns and sufferings that the Fifties malelabored to avoid.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Iron John by Robert Bly, 1990
The quote contrasts the idealized, disciplined 1950s masculine archetype with later, more conflicted male identities shaped by war and feminism.
In simple terms: Two male models: the 1950s disciplined man and the later questioning man.
Recognize how cultural shifts reshape gender expectations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career expectations
- family roles
- military service
- social change
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you define masculinity today?
- What aspects of past models still serve you?
The idealized model may overlook emotional needs and individuality.