Advantage Quote by Rebecca West
“Marriage had certain commercial advantages. By it the man secures the exclusive right to the woman's body and by it, the woman binds the man to support her during the rest of her life… A more disgraceful bargain was never struck.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Return of the Soldier by Rebecca West, 1918
The quote critiques marriage as a transactional bargain that reduces partners to economic and bodily exchanges, highlighting inherent power imbalances and loss of autonomy.
In simple terms: Marriage is portrayed as a trade that limits freedom.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and challenge inequitable relationship expectations.
Themes
gender
power
marriage
economics
autonomy
Mood
critical
reflective
Type
sociopolitical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- legal contracts
- family planning
- relationship counseling
- social policy
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
feminist critique
social contract
gender roles
Questions to Reflect On
- How can modern relationships avoid these power dynamics?
- What alternatives to traditional marriage promote equality?
A Different Perspective
It overlooks love, mutual respect, and the possibility of egalitarian partnerships.
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