Appease Quote by Rebecca Solnit
“When you say 'mother' or 'father' you describe three different phenomena. There is the giant who made you and loomed over your early years; there is whatever more human-scale version might have been possible to perceive later and maybe even befriend; and there is the internalized version of the parent with whom you struggle- to appease, to escape, to be yourself, to understand and be understood by- and they make up a chaotic and contradictory trinity.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Mother in History by Rebecca Solnit, 2015
'Mother' and 'father' embody three distinct aspects: the creator, the relatable human, and the internalized parent we wrestle with.
In simple terms: Three facets of parental concepts.
Key Takeaway
Integrate and reconcile these aspects.
Themes
identity
family
psychology
Mood
thoughtful
introspective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parenting
- therapy
- self‑growth
- literature
Key Concepts
internal conflict
role models
Questions to Reflect On
- How do these facets affect self‑identity?
- Can you separate the internal parent from the external?
A Different Perspective
Complexity can cause confusion.
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