Afraid Quote by Rajneesh
“We are afraid of love because Love is a small death. Love requires that we should surrender, and we don't want to surrender at all. We would like the OTHER to surrender, we would like the other to be a slave. But the same is the desire from the other side: man wants the woman to be a slave; and of course the woman also wants the same, the SAME desire is there. Their methods of enslaving each other may be different, but the desire is the same.”
About This Quote
Source Lecture: Rajneesh’s public talks, 1990
He suggests love is feared because it demands surrender, leading to a mutual desire for control, which manifests as domination.
In simple terms: Love feels risky because it requires surrender, prompting control struggles.
Key Takeaway
Embrace vulnerability to foster genuine love.
Themes
love
fear
control
Mood
reflective
philosophical
Type
emotional
introspective
When to use this quote
- Romantic partnerships
- friendships
- family interactions
Key Concepts
Vulnerability
power dynamics
relationships
Questions to Reflect On
- What does surrender mean to you in love?
- How can you balance vulnerability and autonomy?
A Different Perspective
Not all fear love; some seek deep connection.
