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Communion Quote by Rainer Maria Rilke

“that is where young people so often and so grievously go wrong: that they (whose nature it is to have no patience) throw themselves at each other when love comes over them, scatter themselves abroad, just as they are in all their untidiness, disorder and confusion . . .: But what is to be done…” quote by Rainer Maria Rilke
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““that is where young people so often and so grievously go wrong: that they (whose nature it is to have no patience) throw themselves at each other when love comes over them, scatter themselves abroad, just as they are in all their untidiness, disorder and confusion . . .: But what is to be done then? How is life to act upon this heap of half crushed matter which they call their communion and which they would dearly like to style their happiness, if that were possible, and their future? So each one loses himself for the other’s sake, and””

Rainer Maria Rilke

About This Quote

Source Poem: “The Book of Hours” by Rainer Maria Rilke, 1905

Youth often rushes into love impulsively, losing self and creating chaos; the challenge is to find balance and purpose.

In simple terms: Youthful love can be chaotic and self‑losing.

Key Takeaway

Seek mindful love and personal stability.

Themes

love youth self‑identity chaos purpose

Mood

introspective empathetic

Type

poetic philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • personal growth
  • mental health counseling
  • creative collaborations

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can one love without losing oneself?
  • What practices foster healthy intimacy?
A Different Perspective

May idealize suffering as necessary.

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