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“Sex is difficult, yes. But they are difficult things with which we have been charged...If you only recognize this and manage out of yourself, out of your own nature and ways, out of your own experience and childhood and strength to achieve a relation to sex wholly your own (not influenced by…” quote by Rainer Maria Rilke
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“Sex is difficult, yes. But they are difficult things with which we have been charged...If you only recognize this and manage out of yourself, out of your own nature and ways, out of your own experience and childhood and strength to achieve a relation to sex wholly your own (not influenced by convention and custom) then you need no longer be afraid of losing yourself and becoming unworthy of your best possession.”

Rainer Maria Rilke

About This Quote

Source Poetry: Letters to a Young Poet, 1908

True intimacy with sexuality comes from self‑knowledge and shedding societal expectations, allowing authentic connection without fear of loss.

In simple terms: Know yourself, ignore norms, love authentically.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate self‑awareness before intimacy.

Themes

self‑discovery sexuality authenticity

Mood

introspective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal relationships
  • self‑reflection
  • educational workshops

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do societal norms shape your view of sex?
  • What steps help you discover your authentic self?
A Different Perspective

Overcoming personal insecurities can be challenging and may require external support.

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