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Depression Quote by Rainer Maria Rilke

“Do not watch yourself too closely. Do not draw over-rapid conclusions from what is happening to you. Simply let it happen. Otherwise you will too readily find yourself looking on your past, which is of course not uninvolved with everything that is going on in you now, reproachfully (that is…” quote by Rainer Maria Rilke
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““Do not watch yourself too closely. Do not draw over-rapid conclusions from what is happening to you. Simply let it happen. Otherwise you will too readily find yourself looking on your past, which is of course not uninvolved with everything that is going on in you now, reproachfully (that is, moralistically). <...> The extraordinary circumstances of a solitary and helpless childhood are so difficult, so complicated, exposed to so many influences and at the same time removed from any real life context, that if a vice enters into it we must not be too quick to call it a vice. We should in general be very careful with names; it is so often the name of a crime which destroys a life, not the nameless and personal act itself, which was perhaps completely necessary to that life and could have been absorbed by it without difficulty.””

Rainer Maria Rilke

About This Quote

Source Essay: Letters to a Young Poet, 1908

Avoid over‑analysis of personal experience; let events unfold without harsh moral labeling.

In simple terms: Don’t over‑interpret your life; let things happen.

Key Takeaway

Observe without judgment.

Themes

self‑awareness acceptance language moral judgment childhood trauma

Mood

contemplative reflective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal reflection
  • parenting
  • educational workshops
  • self‑help groups

Key Concepts

psychology existentialism social labeling

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does labeling affect personal growth?
  • When is judgment necessary?
A Different Perspective

Over‑analysis can lead to paralysis and self‑criticism.

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