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Person Quote by Rainbow Rowell

“I don’t think I’m any good at this. Boy–girl. Person–person. I don’t trust anybody. Not anybody. And the more that I care about someone, the more sure I am they’re going to get tired of me and take off.” quote by Rainbow Rowell
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““I don’t think I’m any good at this. Boy–girl. Person–person. I don’t trust anybody. Not anybody. And the more that I care about someone, the more sure I am they’re going to get tired of me and take off.””

Rainbow Rowell

About This Quote

Source Novel: Carry On by Rainbow Rowell, 2015

The speaker feels inadequate, distrustful, and fears abandonment when caring deeply for others.

In simple terms: Insecurity and fear of being abandoned when caring.

Key Takeaway

Accept vulnerability and seek supportive relationships.

Themes

insecurity trust relationships

Mood

anxious reflective

Type

personal emotional

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • therapy
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

self‑esteem attachment anxiety

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does fear of abandonment affect your relationships?
  • What steps can you take to build trust?
A Different Perspective

Fear of intimacy can limit connection and self‑growth.

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