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“I hurried out of the lobby and turned the corner into the English hall, so I didn’t see the guy in front of me until it was too late. “Oh!” I exclaimed as we bumped shoulders. “Sorry!” Then I realized who I’d bumped into, and I immediately regretted my apologetic tone. If I’d known it was David…” quote by Rachel Hawkins
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““I hurried out of the lobby and turned the corner into the English hall, so I didn’t see the guy in front of me until it was too late. “Oh!” I exclaimed as we bumped shoulders. “Sorry!” Then I realized who I’d bumped into, and I immediately regretted my apologetic tone. If I’d known it was David Stark, I would have tried to hit him harder, or maybe stepped on his foot with the spiky heel of my new shoes for good measure. I did my best to smile at him, though, even as I realized my stomach was jumping all over the place. He must have scared me more than I’d thought. David scowled at me over the rims of his ridiculous hipster glasses, the kind with the thick black rims. I hate those. I mean, it’s the 21st century. There are fashionable options for eyewear. “Watch where you’re going,” he said. Then his lips twisted in a smirk. “Or could you not see through all that mascara?” I would’ve loved nothing more than the tell him to kiss my ass, but one of the responsibilities of being a student leader at The Grove is being polite to everyone, even if he is a douchebag who wrote not one, but three incredibly unflattering articles in the school paper about what a crap job you’re doing as SGA president. And you especially needed to be polite to said douchebag when he happened to be the nephew of Saylor Stark, President of the Pine Grove Junior League, head of the Pine Grove Betterment Society, Chairwoman of the Grove Academy School Board, and, most importantly, Founder and Organizer of Pine Grove’s Annual Cotillion. So I forced myself to smile even bigger at David and said, “Nope, just in a hurry. Are you, uh… are you here for the dance?” He snorted. “Um, no. I’d rather slam my testicles in a locker door. I have some work to do on the paper.””

Rachel Hawkins

About This Quote

Source Personal Narrative: Blog Post, Rachel Hawkins, 2023

The anecdote illustrates the tension between personal authenticity and social expectations, highlighting the challenge of maintaining politeness amid provocation.

In simple terms: Balancing authenticity with politeness is tough.

Key Takeaway

Stay true while being courteous.

Themes

social dynamics authenticity politeness conflict

Mood

reflective humorous

Type

personal social

When to use this quote

  • student leadership
  • public interactions
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology interpersonal communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • When should you assert boundaries?
  • How can you express authenticity without aggression?
A Different Perspective

Politeness may enable disrespectful behavior.

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