Dysfunctional family Quote by R. Alan Woods
““There exits within the ecclesia and among its citizens a phenomena I refer to as 'Spiritual Correctness'. Essentially it says: 'Don't say anything that could offend anyone, focus on what is right with the 'church' and its leadership, don't be critical, speak the truth in 'love', promote the status quo, don't make 'waves', don't call anyone 'out', respect 'authority', don't expose 'wrong-doing', cover those who 'spiritually abuse' others, keep it 'secret' within our family; don't ask any hard questions. Sounds exactly like the textbook definition of a highly dysfunctional family system. The only 'system' and its enablers that Jesus spoke out against vehemently was the religious system of His day and its leadership." ~R. Alan Woods [2013]””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Spiritual Dynamics of Religion, R. Alan Woods, 2013
The quote critiques a culture of avoiding conflict and truth‑telling in religious communities, likening it to a dysfunctional family that protects authority and suppresses criticism.
In simple terms: Avoiding truth to protect authority creates dysfunction.
Key Takeaway
Challenge harmful conformity.
Themes
authority
conformity
truth
religion
family dynamics
Mood
critical
reflective
Type
analytical
philosophical
critical
When to use this quote
- church leadership meetings
- family counseling
- organizational training
- activist discussions
Key Concepts
spiritual correctness
dysfunction
social control
Questions to Reflect On
- How does silence protect or harm a community?
- What steps can break this cycle?
A Different Perspective
Such secrecy can also preserve harmful power structures.
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