Authentically Quote by Priscilla Gilman
““So even as he was making great strides, memorizing the expected answers and beginning to answer questions appropriately, I often wondered to myself, yes, he is learning how to "function," but is he really learning how to connect deeply, flexibly, authentically with others? Or are we just helping him to "get by," to "pass" more easily? Will he ever experience genuine intimacy? Will he ever be real?””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New York Times, Priscilla Gilman, 2022
Learning that focuses on surface performance may miss deep, authentic connection and true intimacy.
In simple terms: Skill without depth leads to shallow relationships.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize genuine interaction over mere competence.
Themes
education
authenticity
relationships
development
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- classroom
- mentorship
- therapy
- team building
- friendship
Key Concepts
deep learning
emotional intelligence
social connection
Questions to Reflect On
- What practices foster authentic connection?
- How can you balance competence with empathy?
A Different Perspective
Depth takes time and may be uncomfortable to pursue.
