Doe Quote by Plutarch
“The flatterer's object is to please in everything he does; whereas the true friend always does what is right, and so often gives pleasure, often pain, not wishing the latter, but not shunning it either, if he deems it best.”
About This Quote
Source Writing: Lives of the Noble Greeks and Romans, 1st century AD
Flattery seeks approval, while true friendship chooses righteousness, even if it brings discomfort.
In simple terms: True friends prioritize right over comfort.
Choose integrity over flattery.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- leadership
- parenting
- mentoring
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does it mean to be a true friend?
- When have you chosen right over easy?
Choosing truth may cause pain to others.