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Absent Quote by Plautus

“Never speak ill of an absent friend.” quote by Plautus — Download Open image

“Never speak ill of an absent friend.”

About This Quote

Source Play: Asin, 194 BC

Avoid speaking negatively about someone who is not present, to preserve trust and reputation.

In simple terms: Don’t bad absent friends.

Key Takeaway

Guard reputations, speak kindly.

Themes

ethics relationships integrity

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

ethical practical

When to use this quote

workplace
friendships
online communities

Key Concepts

reputation management social etiquette

Questions to Reflect On

When is honest feedback more important than politeness?
How do cultural norms affect this rule?

A Different Perspective

Might suppress necessary criticism.

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