Loneliness Quote by Philip Roth
““Yes, alone we are, deeply alone, and always, in store for us, a layer of loneliness even deeper. There is nothing we can do to dispose of that. No, loneliness shouldn’t surprise us, as astonishing to experience as it may be. You can try yourself inside out, but all you are then is inside out and lonely instead of inside in and lonely. My stupid, stupid Merry dear, stupider even that your stupid father, not even blowing up buildings helps. It’s lonely if there are buildings and it’s lonely if there are buildings and it’s lonely if there are no buildings. There is no protest to be lodged against loneliness⎯not all the bombing campaigns in history have made a dent in it. The most lethal of manmade explosives can’t touch it. Stand in awe not of Communism, my idiot child, but of ordinary, everyday loneliness.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: American Pastoral by Philip Roth, 1997
Loneliness is an inherent, deep condition that persists despite external circumstances or attempts to escape it.
In simple terms: Loneliness is deep and unavoidable.
Accept and explore inner solitude.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- mental health work
- creative writing
- philosophical dialogue
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does acknowledging loneliness change your relationships?
- Can solitude be a source of growth?
Loneliness may be mitigated but never fully eliminated.