Ability Quote by Paulo Coelho
“Surrendering completely to love, be it human or divine, means giving up everything, including our own well-being or our ability to make decisions. It means loving in the deepest sense of the word. The truth is that we don't want to be saved in the way God has chosen; we want to keep absolute control over our every step, to be fully conscious of our decisions, to be capable of choosing the object of our devotion.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, 1988
Total surrender to love requires relinquishing personal autonomy and comfort, embracing vulnerability and self‑less devotion.
In simple terms: Loving fully means giving up control.
Embrace vulnerability over control.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- spiritual practice
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you fear losing yourself in love?
- How can you maintain agency while surrendering?
Total surrender can lead to loss of self‑identity if not balanced.