Attack Quote by Paul Auster
“You tend to feel very hurt when people attack you and feel indifferent when you get praise. You think, 'Of course they like it. They should like it.'”
About This Quote
People often react strongly to criticism and become indifferent to praise, assuming approval is expected, which can distort self‑perception.
In simple terms: Criticism hits harder than praise.
Key Takeaway
Seek balanced feedback and self‑validation.
Themes
self‑esteem
criticism
validation
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
personal
psychological
When to use this quote
- performance reviews
- creative work
- personal relationships
- public speaking
Key Concepts
psychology
social perception
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do you value others’ opinions so much?
- How can you develop internal standards of worth?
A Different Perspective
Over‑reliance on external approval can undermine confidence.
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