Army Quote by Paul Auster
![“A canteen I remember vividly, and maybe one other thing, I can't remember. And I knew then that he had bought them in an army surplus store that day and he wanted to maybe enhance himself in my eyes, and say, "Well, yes, I have been in the army." Or [he] simply just didn't want to disappoint me…” quote by Paul Auster](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/af8/paul-auster-351_army_a-canteen-i-remember-vividly-and-maybe-o_237873.jpg)
“A canteen I remember vividly, and maybe one other thing, I can't remember. And I knew then that he had bought them in an army surplus store that day and he wanted to maybe enhance himself in my eyes, and say, "Well, yes, I have been in the army." Or [he] simply just didn't want to disappoint me. It could have been one or the other. But I knew that he had lied to me. And this filled me with a tremendous sort of anger towards him. At the same time, knowing he was trying to please me, so feeling good about him.”
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Lie,” 1995
The narrator discovers a friend’s lie about military service, feeling both anger and empathy, revealing complex emotional responses to deception.
In simple terms: Deception triggers mixed feelings of anger and understanding.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and process conflicting emotions when betrayed.
Themes
trust
deception
empathy
Mood
conflicted
thoughtful
Type
literary
psychological
When to use this quote
- confronting a friend about a lie
- reflecting on personal values
- managing anger
Key Concepts
honesty
social expectation
emotional conflict
Questions to Reflect On
- Why did the friend feel the need to lie?
- How can you address the betrayal while preserving the relationship?
A Different Perspective
Friend may feel guilt, making resolution harder.
![“I can't imagine that I would be asked that by the president-elect [Donald Trump], or then-president [Barack Obama]. But it's - I'm very clear. I voted for the change that put the Army Field Manual in place as a member of Congress. I understand that law very, very quickly and am also deeply aware…” quote by James Mattis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/761/james-mattis-9515_army_i-can-t-imagine-that-i-would-be-asked-th_3990.jpg)
